Long Distance Relationship

He fetched her at the airport. She only have a day left to be with her guy. They're both inside the car, holding hands, spending every minute as if it's their last. They arrived at his house. Dropped all things on hand and held on each other's arms. Gave a passionate kiss. His arms slowly holding her waist. Her arms around his neck. And the day ended.




 

You have someone you loved. You can't picture out life without him. But due to circumstances, you have to go far away from him. So far that you both live on the opposite ends of the earth. And that's how long distance relationships start.

As we all know, long distance relationships never last. There are too many rules to follow in order for it to work. Living in the 21st century, there are too many temptations, too many bad influence around you. How can the one suffice the needs of the other one? Only trust and patience can truly make things work out.


If you are in a long distance relationship, try to avoid the following:

Lose communication

When both cannot communicate by their usual time, there is a possibility that the relationship is drifting away. That feeling when you have nothing to tell to the other person anymore. When talking or sending a message to the one you love doesn't excite you anymore or it feels annoying already. Try to share the things you have done for the day. Try to explore things and share it to the other person. Never give in to let one feel like there is nothing to talk about anymore. But make sure too that the topics you try to open up is a topic which the other person can also enjoy.

Suspicion

There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. Learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner.

Settle for a temporary replacement

One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around Third parties, even though unintentionally, can break the mutual trust and agreement that you make.






But of course, there are also perks on having a long distance relationship. Having a LDR will make you realize how you love each other's company, how you wanted to be on each other's arms again, how incomplete life will be without the other. But despites these things, the negative traits still prevails in real life.

Think before deciding on staying on a long distance relationship.